Disillusioned with your New Year's Resolutions?
- Eileen Strong
- Feb 25
- 6 min read
Updated: Mar 19
Achieve Success: Turn them into Illuminated Acheivements in just 5 Steps
A few months into the new year, and our New Year's Resolutions are all gaily romping along too aren't they? We're making the transformation we desired, and we're just feeling so much better in so many ways! We're rocking it!
"New Year, New You" ...that's what all the inspirational posts said, right?
But, .. what if a few of those good intentions you had for yourself this year have slithered off the top of the "bucket list?" What if they have plopped into the sludgy-sediment bit at the bottom of the bucket that ends up getting forgotten or swilled away out of sight .. atleast until next year? 😕
Well, fret not. These " Disillusioned Resolutions" (as I call them) are really really common. After even just a few weeks, the high hopes and intentions we had initially can soon lead to stress and feelings of overwhelm; ultimately total inertia; nothing changes in you or your life. And if nothing changes, what do you get? Same old same old. Please don't lose heart; the key word here is "heart" 💖
Scroll back with me a few months to December. Do you remember how motivated and excited you were to plan and set ambitious goals for the new year and start some New Resolutions on 1 Jan?
"The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." - Albert Einstein
Probably, nobody has to be a genius to work that one out! So if you want something different from what you've already got, it's time to do something different. Let's dive in.
Now's the time to Design and Re-Define the Life You Crave!
The truth is, if you truly want to achieve success, life change isn't about luck or magic (although a sprinkling of those always helps!). It's about having clear goals, the right tools to help you stay motivated and activated, and keeping your focus on what you want rather than what you don't want. Again, you don't have to be a genius to work that out.
So what if I told you I've got a proven, 5 step system (SYSTEM: Saves You Serious Time Energy and Money) that has helped thousands of people all over the globe make changes in their lives, tapping into the power of their passions, recognising and sharing their unique gifts and talents and - since you can use a SYSTEM over and over again - continuing to always always always align your life with what's most important in life at that time.
This is truly the moment to unleash your dreams. It isn't empty talk; see it as a chance to gain complete clarity on what you genuinely desire for Yourself, ... not necessarily what others believe you should want, do, be, or have. Just be you.
You are only limited by your imagination. I'd love to share this complete proven framework with you.
Here's a glimpse of 5 key steps in creating lasting positive passion-powered change. You could soon be celebrating your "wins and successes" afterall!
1. Unearth Your True Desires:
This is about so much more than what you think you should want. No need to limit yourself either! Let's think outside the usual box too and cover all areas of life; health, education, relationships, romance, work, finances, spirituality, your environment, service, fun stuff.
It's about digging deep and uncovering the passions and values that truly drive you. What ignites your soul? What lights you up and makes your heart sing? What kind of impact do you want to make on the world? Is there something you always dreamed about doing/being/having when you were a kid? What would you like in a world that says Yes! to you, where doors open for you that wouldn't open up for anyone else?
This foundational step is crucial for setting goals that resonate with your authentic self. Start with a really big picture and don't let your mind talk you out of it .. just go with your heartfelt desires and dream BIG.
2. Craft a Compelling Vision:
Once you know what you truly desire, it's time to paint a vivid picture of your ideal future. What does your life look like when you've achieved your goals? What are you doing? How are you feeling? Are there specific sights, smells, sounds, tastes?
Use all your senses as you re-define your goals and dreams and start to make them more real in your life. This powerful vision will serve as your guiding star, keeping you motivated even when the going gets
tough. This is where we start to take that BIG picture, and bring it in closer so we can get some detail. This is so powerful! And even if it feels just too much "out there" to be a possible reality for you, that in itself speaks volumes about the thought patterns, emotions and habits that have (so far) been holding you back. No judgements here .. it's all totally normal. Be kind to yourself always .. and keep moving forward. Lets get into some milestones ..
3. Define Measurable Milestones:
Big goals can feel daunting. This is one reason why it's so key to break things down from big chunks into smaller bite-size pieces. They are so much more manageable.
This stage is all about creating a roadmap with clear milestones that will mark your progress.
These milestones will not only keep you on track but also provide a sense of accomplishment along the way. They'll also serve to give you hard evidence that your goals and dreams really are unfolding, happening and becoming integrated into you life .. without you having to pinch yourself!
4. Identify and Overcome Your Obstacles:
Let's face it: change is rarely easy. That's why many corporate organisations initiate "Change Management" training for their executives and senior staff because they recognise that smoother transitions maximise success. It' s just the same for the rest of us.
Managing change helps to:
Minimizing disruption:
Reduce resistance:
Improve success rates:
Enhance adaptability:
Improving communication:
Boost morale:
Maintain momentum
Don't forget, you don't have to do this by yourself! I've got this covered with the SYSTEM I want to share with you which brings me neatly on to our next topic; the need for social support.
5. Cultivate a Supportive Environment:
Surrounding yourself with the right people and resources is essential for success. This final step focuses on building a support system that will cheer you on, hold you accountable, and provide the encouragement you need to stay committed to your goals. This is so much more important that you might initially think.
You already have your inner critic sitting on one shoulder chirping away one ear, telling you you're rubbish and you're just going to fail, so why bother? Well, when you have a supportive social circle and environment, it helps you tune in more easily to your inner cheerleader who sits on the other shoulder and is always there for you, reminding you can do anything, be anything, have everything! And there's no problem you can't solve.
Now's the time to Design and Re-Define the Life You Crave!
Ready to stop wishing and start living? Would you like Design and Re-Define those Disillusioned Resolutions so you can start celebrating your Wins, and turning challenges into opportunities.
I am so excited to share with you the how-to strategies for each of these five steps, giving you the tools and support you need to truly succeed in creating lasting positive change. That's not just for this year. It's for the rest of your life.
Never forget, you CAN do it. You are good enough. You already have everything within you that you need to make a success of this. I'm here to hold that space for you and give you all the extra support you might need to turn your challenges into successes, and help keep your focus on what you want: not what you don't want.
Acknowledgements:
What you'll learn:
I travelled from UK to Chicago USA in 2014 to learn how to teach this wonderful SYSTEM so I can share it with people just like you who are ready! It's based on the teachings of Janet Bray-Attwood and Chris Attwood, authors and creator of The Passion Test. To find out more about it, visit my dedicated The Passion Test website page HERE to view my video and read student reviews.
Want a pretty year planner/journal for 2025?
I got the one in the header photo of this Blog from Carrie&Co This isn't an affiliate link and I don't earn reward for sharing it! It's just a really pretty eye-catching planner that helps add to the fun and joy of tapping into your creativity and goal-setting flow.
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